http://death-and-pies.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] death-and-pies.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] fandomtherapy2009-03-29 08:35 pm

Whispers in the Dark

We haven't done this type of sharing in awhile so I think it's time to do that now.

So, tell me a secret, Fandom. Tell me something no one else knows. Tell me something you haven't said out loud to anyone yet. If you don't have any secrets, tell me something you wish would happen to you, whether it be realistic or not.

[identity profile] dojima-hime.livejournal.com 2009-03-30 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
Oh for the love of...

Ino, hon, you need to come talk to me. Because contrary to what you think, this IS about me and NOT YOU.

If your opinion on marriage is valid, so is his, and so is mine. And mine says that nine times out of ten, you marry whomever you have to for the honor of the clan, and just keep your love affairs discreet and tidy. Everyone can be happy if no one is stupid.

I was hurt because this wasn't arranged. It was me feeling rejected, exactly the same as if he'd cheated on me after making such a big deal about dating. I never expected my Romeo to cheat, physically or emotionally. That's what devastated me. Not the words, although I boggle that you can get that drunk, but the speed with which I was replaced by Angela.

So quit projecting your relationship issues onto my relationship, please. It's tacky, and you're better than that.
intraspective: (badass glasses girl)

[personal profile] intraspective 2009-03-30 03:40 am (UTC)(link)
Dojima-san, with all due respect, I have not said one word to you because I don't feel this is any of your concern.

It's not about your relationship.

It's about how I view him, and how that's changed, and I'm very not sorry but I can't just pretend that didn't happen. My opinion of him changed, and I can't fix that and close my eyes to it.