take your best shot

[flipped-god-off.livejournal.com]

It's been way too long since we've had some therapy up in here so we go.

GET IT OUT. It's time to just get whatever you want to say off your chest. Confess a secret, scream out your anger, be giddy about something good, talk out your emo, gloat about all the sex you're having, or something else.

FREE FOR ALL THERAPY POST. GET IT OUT.

Comments

[trigons_child]

Why do I only seem to be attracted to bad boys? How can I learn about love when all they want is sex?

[guardianborn.livejournal.com]

What's the point of learning about love? You're like 16. Says she who's repressing hard

[trigons_child]

But it is such a wondrous feeling! I have felt it through others, and I want to feel love of my own.

[guardianborn.livejournal.com]

...that's kinda creepy. I mean, okay, yeah, nice to be in love, but bad boys are totally more fun.

[trigons_child]

How are they more fun? They only seem to want physical gratification, not true intimacy. Why do you prefer them to nicer boys?

[guardianborn.livejournal.com]

Because I'm 17?

...and because I'm in love with a guy who's too old for me, but that's not important now.

Anyway physical gratification is damn good, you know?

[trigons_child]

I know the physical act can be quite enjoyable -- at least the one time I experienced it it was not to mention what I've felt from others -- but it also seemed empty somehow. You do not need a deeper emotional connection to the one you have sex with?

[guardianborn.livejournal.com]

All the guys I've had sex with are friends if that's what you mean.

[trigons_child]

And it does not affect your friendships? Neither of you wish it to become something more?


....I am very new at this.

[brat-intraining.livejournal.com]

Well, see, the boys thing, that's your problem.

Just sayin'.

[trigons_child]

It was indeed enjoyable kissing you.

But I have a feeling I would only fall for bad girls in exactly the same way.

[brat-intraining.livejournal.com]

But that's automatically about five hundred times better. I mean, duh.

[trigons_child]

But it still does not solve my problem of wishing to know love, not merely physical pleasure.

[brat-intraining.livejournal.com]

Point. I kinda can't help you there, sorry.

[trigons_child]

Yes, for you are falling in love with someone else.

[brat-intraining.livejournal.com]

...

I AM NOT.

[trigons_child]

You know I am an empath, do you not?

[brat-intraining.livejournal.com]

And that's kind of freaky, but it's cool, but you're still way off base here. O.O

[trigons_child]

We shall see, I suppose.

[brat-intraining.livejournal.com]

Okay, you know you're not helping, right?

[trigons_child]

Will it help if I admit that I am very new to emotions and may get them confused?

[brat-intraining.livejournal.com]

...you know, I was going to point that out.

[trigons_child]

Perhaps you are right.

Or...not.

[brat-intraining.livejournal.com]

And normally this is where I'd just flirt with you until you're too flustered to argue with me any more but.

[trigons_child]

But whaaaaaaaaaat?