lost in the mix

[flipped-god-off.livejournal.com]

It's been way too long since Fandom's had some therapy and after some of the goings on, I think we fucking need it. So, Fandom denizens far and wide, what the fuck is going on? How the fuck are you? What the fuck is keeping you busy? How the fucking are you feeling?

Catch up with each other, talk it out, wonder what the fuck you got yourself into (oh new students, you'll get used to shit, we promise) and look ahead to the future! It's therapy. Sit down on the couch and let it all out, Fandom.

Comments

[glacial_queen]

I am an alien here Jack, for all that I'm completely human. And I have found my footing--just in very, very specific instances. And it's easy to lose. It's why I like acting so much--then nothing matters but the stage. The rest of the time though, I don't have the luxury of forgetting.

And part of the reason I do talk about home so much is because it's changing. It's going wrong. It's getting poisoned and...sometimes I talk to remind myself how things should be and sometimes I talk because it's a kind of self-flagellation. I'm here and not there and people are being broken and killed in my absence. Maybe if I were a little more truthful about what I'm coming from, the circumstances around my leaving, you'd understand a bit more. Everything here is geared towards me going back and trying to fix things that have gone horribly, horribly wrong.

I'm just worried that if I can't tell you the good things about my home, you'll just repudiate me further when you learn of the bad. Though I have a feeling we could understand each other a bit more if we did, because what I am is becoming villified back home, too.

[bitten_notshy]

I think our points of view are just different to the point of absurdity. I'm interested in revolution, I'm interested in danger, I'm interested in rebellion -- I'd be fascinated if you told me about the problems in your home. I spend half my time at home working with the Irish to throw the English out of the colonies.

But the things you see as 'good' are so alien that I can't process them as anything except odd at best. (And, while I'd take my education over powers if I had to make a conscious choice, there's still a little whine of frustration bordering on jealousy inside my head that so many people here can easily do things I could never, ever do. So there's that.)

Moot point, since I doubt we'll have those conversations. We'll always have the stage.

[glacial_queen]

I think your arms are absurdly hot in that icon

You're right about not having these conversations, though. I'm glad we'll have the stage, but it isn't the same. And I'm really sorry for that.