pursuedthestars: ([sex] make out)
Jim Kirk ([personal profile] pursuedthestars) wrote in [community profile] fandomtherapy2014-06-10 01:35 pm

Love and Romance

It has been 364 days since our last therapy post on this topic. So hey, why not toss one up before the year anniversary? And make it a little different to boot!

So, let's talk about sex, love and romance! Typically, we just talk about who's doing the deed and who's getting some and who wants to get some but why don't we talk about the other stuff as well. Who's getting courted? Who's getting kissed and holding hands? Who's falling in love and falling out of love? What do you think about all that?

TALK ABOUT IT, FOLKS! Talk about your relationships, your dates, your one night stands, your crushes, your lack of anything, your virginity and how you intend to keep it that way, talk it about it all!
robinonadderall: ([not!stiles] i'll find her myself)

[personal profile] robinonadderall 2014-06-10 05:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I used to have a great relationship with my boyfriend (sex, so much dirty sex) but then I turned evil and started killing people so now I think the relationship might be a bit strained.

That old story.

[identity profile] craftyladyparts.livejournal.com 2014-06-10 05:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I've got nothing going on, which gives me plenty of time for my work. I'm pretty much married to that anyway.

[identity profile] notaweenie.livejournal.com 2014-06-10 06:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Go to college. Bad fucking idea to get lonely in Iowa. Too many attractive sheep.

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[identity profile] notaweenie.livejournal.com 2014-06-10 06:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Shit, dude. Who's got time for fucking when there's science to do?

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trigons_child: (Smug (just a lil' bit))

[personal profile] trigons_child 2014-06-10 06:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I have learned that "friends with benefits" is a very enjoyable thing.

And vampires have a great deal of stamina....

[identity profile] likes-ducklings.livejournal.com 2014-06-10 06:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess there are cute boys here -- I live with one of them! -- but I just have a hard time seeing anybody...like that. They're all just my friends.

Who has time for that, anyway? I'm only sixteen.

[identity profile] livebytherules.livejournal.com 2014-06-10 06:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I like girls. I like being around girls and I enjoy when a girl likes me but it's getting so hard to tell who likes me and who doesn't. They don't owe me anything but I am just so confused by it all.

I'll get over it.
whenshewasnice: ([neu] If you must.)

[personal profile] whenshewasnice 2014-06-10 07:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, I've been stuck incommunicado in space for what feels like forever, and it would be making me sad and lonely if we weren't under so much stress of various kinds, up to and including the recent threat of assassination.

It hasn't been a good time for romance in my life for a while now.

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suitably_heroic: (dsp: exCUSE me?)

[personal profile] suitably_heroic 2014-06-10 08:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I have a weird, confusing thing for this Jedi I'm with and now I can't focus on other women and it is messing up my head in the most thorough way possible.


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flickofthewrist: (the god that failed)

[personal profile] flickofthewrist 2014-06-10 08:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, the sex life is great. It's dirty and boundary pushing and fun and adventurous. It's everything else that's confusing as fuck. There are feelings, strong ones, and I really probably focused those on the most complicated person in the universe.

And it's just getting worse which just means I'm probably gonna eat it soon.
endsthegame: (+ valentine ready now)

[personal profile] endsthegame 2014-06-10 08:06 pm (UTC)(link)
We're actively working towards having our first child right now, which... there's been a lot of talking.

Communication's important.

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[identity profile] doesnotkneel.livejournal.com 2014-06-10 08:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah, I'm still fancy free and I can't say I mind it terribly. No need to go rushin' into things.

[identity profile] halfbad.livejournal.com 2014-06-10 08:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I can't even look at a girl for five seconds. And I don't know what happens to me when it comes to guys. I'm helpless and hopeless.

[identity profile] didntchewgrass.livejournal.com 2014-06-10 08:28 pm (UTC)(link)
The last man I was involved with, I turned into a scarecrow. I think I'm going to abstain from any sort of entanglement with another for quite some time.

[identity profile] graveyardwolf.livejournal.com 2014-06-10 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
One of the people I'm actually trying to sleep with I probably shouldn't sleep with 'cause she's my alpha's ex.

I'm probably still gonna keep on trying anyway.

Other than that, my sex life's actually pretty good, if a little irregular 'cause I come from the worst town on the planet.
sharp_as_knives: (business casual)

[personal profile] sharp_as_knives 2014-06-10 09:40 pm (UTC)(link)
The person I'm the most interested in is currently in a high-security mental facility because I framed him for multiple murders, but at least he is speaking to me again, so I'm seeing that as a positive sign.

And I have had a bit of fun here lately. I'm somewhat annoyed at the lack of control those crystals induced, but I can't argue with the results.

[identity profile] nobloodymessiah.livejournal.com 2014-06-10 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
I have a boyfriend! It's kind of exhilarating. We kiss rather a lot. It's usually rather enthusiastic.

There hasn't been much of that lately, what with Elsa being a polar bear.

I don't ... I understand the sexual impulse but I doubt I'll be indulging any time soon.
furnaceface: (Snake Its a Snake)

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myownface: (Lips)

[personal profile] myownface 2014-06-11 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
Ha, a whole lot of none of the above. Which isn't so bad. Just, you know, I'm not actively looking, and I don't think there are many people around who are exactly my type these days anyway.


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notamascot: (What?)

[personal profile] notamascot 2014-06-11 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
No. Uh uh, not happening.

And did I mention, no?

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wrongkindofsith: (And I will love you and pet you...)

[personal profile] wrongkindofsith 2014-06-11 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
I have Surreal, privacy, and copious free time.

I'm sure you can figure the rest out.

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[identity profile] fly-so-serious.livejournal.com 2014-06-11 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
I am having the time of my fucking life! Seriously, I've got a hot girlfriend with a great sense of humor who's fun to hang out with and even more fun to make out with. You can all be jealous, now.

[identity profile] whateverknight.livejournal.com 2014-06-11 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
My love life is, as always, immensely satisfying. Why do you care?

[identity profile] angelo-wings.livejournal.com 2014-06-11 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
People like talking about sex. Didn't the guys in SeeD ever gossip in the locker room?

[identity profile] fix-it-guy.livejournal.com 2014-06-11 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
Not that it's any of your business, because it's not, but right now I need love like I need a hole in the head.
spin_kick_snap: (Hair Tuck Ear 2 (Thoughtful))

[personal profile] spin_kick_snap 2014-06-11 07:27 pm (UTC)(link)

"This school is filled with very hot people and maybe one day I'll be able to figure out what to do about that ahahahaha yeah right I'm going to go hide in a corner now."

Either a song by Fallout Boy or the title of my autobiography, I don't even know.