http://death-and-pies.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] death-and-pies.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] fandomtherapy2008-07-27 05:36 pm

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So, what's making you emo lately?

And don't lie, I know you're emo. Almost all of us are teenagers, that's automatic emo!
withoutverona: (cigarettes are a filthy habit)

[personal profile] withoutverona 2008-07-27 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm trying to be better about not whining about everything in my life to everyone in the immediate vicinity.

But, since this doesn't count anyhow (which is why my mun is letting me talk like a normal human being, thank god) -- what would you say if I asked you about the thing with Yurika? Are three words really *that* big a deal?
intraspective: (only time)

[personal profile] intraspective 2008-07-27 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I am A) your neighbour, B) your friend, and C) would much rather hear about other people's problems than my own. Seriously, whine away.

And, well, it depends on the person? I don't say it very often like, at all, so yeah, those words mean a lot to me. I care 'bout a lot of people, and won't ever say those words to them. To me, those three words, are permanent. You can't take them back, and you don't get over it if the relationship turns bad later. So, yeah. I don't know. Have you asked her about her opinion on those words? Not, like, related to you directly, but in general?
withoutverona: (he has a secret for you)

[personal profile] withoutverona 2008-07-27 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I say it about everyone. In canon I said it about a girl who barely talked to me.

I know it means more than that, now. But it's ... I feel it can be, not taken back, but overwritten.

And that came up a long time ago, actually. She said she didn't do love, even for her family. What am I supposed to do with that?

intraspective: (either way thoughtful)

[personal profile] intraspective 2008-07-27 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd show her with a hug then, with a dinner, every time you smile at her then make it a non-verbal 'I love you'.

Just avoid the words for now, and 'say' it in other ways. You've said it aloud three times, right? So she does know that, so maybe for a bit stay away from those words. If she's saying stuff like that about even her family, then, really, love probably burned her badly in the past.
withoutverona: (most sensitive boy)

[personal profile] withoutverona 2008-07-27 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
...Ino?

I never knew you were a romantic.

*sigh* But, yes, I'll do that. All of it. I try to, anyhow, else I'd be saying it twice a day.

The thing is, I'm very good at pretty words. Pretty words are what I do.

I'm not sure what she sees in me, if she doesn't want those.
intraspective: (Should I hide?)

[personal profile] intraspective 2008-07-27 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
*blushes furiously* I am not a romantic! Take that back!

Romeo... seriously, you've got a lot of good points that don't involve pretty words. You're fun, you're hot, you're totally awesome for talking to. Seriously, I'd bet she's got a lot of things she sees in you.
withoutverona: (behind blue eyes)

[personal profile] withoutverona 2008-07-28 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
I know a romantic when I see one, m'lady.

*pinkens* And thank you.

intraspective: (are you REALLY sure)

[personal profile] intraspective 2008-07-28 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
Romantics are gushy and sappy! *flails* I'm not one! Really!

Only telling the truth, you know. You're welcome.