http://stupid-toasters.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] stupid-toasters.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] fandomtherapy2009-03-31 07:33 pm

Lend Me An Ear

So, we've all got our problems. And, if you don't have any problems, well, I salute you. But the majority of us have some issues. And maybe we don't know what to do about those issues. This is the post for you! Ask for advice! Ask what you should do in the case of: how to ask someone out for the first time, how to make long distance relationships work, how to break up with someone, how to tell someone they look fat in those jeans, anything at all you want advice on!

And one and all can answer, give you advice, speak from experience. We can help each other because frak knows, we've all been through some crap.

And really, this is therapy. We should be play therapist!
tyler_gone: (Guy Love)

[personal profile] tyler_gone 2009-04-01 12:35 am (UTC)(link)
Acknowledge her. Talk to her. See what she wants.

Then tell her no and mean it. I shot myself to kill mine, but, uh, I was kind of crazy.

Cleaning up the damage for me is drugs and making myself sleep and avoiding stress, but I don't think that's how it works in your canon.

weetuskenraider: (Suspicious)

[personal profile] weetuskenraider 2009-04-01 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
I think getting addicted to something will lead to me turning evil and torturing Ben, so that might be out.

I might have to talk to her, though. Because this is getting, um, inconvenient.
tyler_gone: (death glare)

[personal profile] tyler_gone 2009-04-01 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not an addict. I mean, I don't think so. I go off the stuff once in a while.

It's just less likely to lead to me turning evil than the other options.

Do you usually talk to her? Or do you black out and she takes over?
weetuskenraider: (Contemplative)

[personal profile] weetuskenraider 2009-04-01 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
No blacking out because I'm so not doing that bit. She just sort of sneaks in and takes over sometimes. Sometimes it's because I've been thinking Yuuzhan Vong when people ask me for advice on them, but lately it's just been sort of happening.
tyler_gone: (listening and impatient)

[personal profile] tyler_gone 2009-04-01 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
For me it's always been a stress thing, or an insomnia thing, or a general way for me to avoid things I don't want to deal with, like emotions or sex. And sometimes for no reason.

I don't have a lot more advice, but we can compare notes anytime.