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So, sex.

Who wants more of it? Who wants less of it? Who isn't having it AT ALL? And if you're not having it, WHY NOT?

Who's having it ALL THE TIME? Is there a secret?

And no, I'm not offering myself up (sorry, Toby). Space makes a man curious!

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It's very very nice Amber. You've just got to make sure the other person knows what they're doing.

Think I should ask first, Ino? "Hey, you any good at this? 'Cause uh, I need it to feel so great, mkay?"

You could do that! Some people might answer honestly 'round here! Or, you know, you could ask Chuck. He's easy, and awesome.

And buys the drinks.

I was totally asking. Shhh.

Chuck? I haven't met Chuck. Ino? You been with Chuck?

Mmmmmm, yeah. He's totally good for the one-night stand, thing. Hot, good in bed, and none of the emotional hassle after.

Think he'll do a virgin? 'Cause that's the problem I'm up against. No guy wants the chick with no experience.

I'd like to say that I'm a fast learner.

You know, I think he would. I mean, I can't say for sure, but yeah, I think he would.

Tell me honestly, what's it like the first time? Too painful to enjoy?

It really depends, seriously. On a lot of things--like what your tolerance for pain is, who your partner is, how much foreplay was done, how much care your partner is taking, and all that.

The big thing though? Is to relax.

Oh man, this just sucks for me. I want it, but not from just anyone. I have no idea how to make this work.

You want the whole relationship thing?

Not necessarily but I do kinda want to like who I'm with.

...

Or does that really matter, you think?

Depends! Do you want just a one-night thing, or a repeated affair? The amount you like someone should be roughly comparable to amount of sex you're having in this case.

I mean, like, I like Chuck--but I don't like Chuck, if that makes sense.

It makes total sense. I think the repeated affair might definitely depend on the one-night thing. It might be so good we both want it again.

Well, that's true too. But that's still a bit different from a real relationship, if it's just the sex.

Hmm.

What are you for, for youself, Ino, the relationship or just the sex?

Sex. Yes, totally just the sex.

Honest. Really.

But if you could have a relationship... you would, right?

If I knew they weren't going to leave?

...

...yeah.

But everyone leaves, so I'm not going to bother.

Everyone leaves.

I'm just going to have sex. It's just sex. It can be fun and satisfying and safe.

Who needs someone just to watch them leave you? It happens all the time. It's why I don't know my dad.

Sex. Just sex. That's what I'm going to look for.

Go for it! I totally support and agree with this reasoning, seriously.

And, you know, sorry 'bout your dad.

I have to find someone!

No big deal. Seriously. He's just a carnie and I'm probably better off now knowing him.

Anyone in mind?

...carnie?

Cal. I seriously thought about Cal but he's out of the question. He won't even kiss me not to mention the fact that he's trying to talk me out of having sex with anyone. And you mentioned Chuck. I'd like to meet Chuck. And then there is awesomely hot Hannibal. Um. I don't really have anyone particular in mind. I guess.

A seasoned carnival worker. Like... an amusement park on a much much smaller scale.

He won't even let me hug him. Not even just as a friend. I'm... seriously not surprised that he's not good with the idea of kissing. But why is he trying to talk you out of it?

Chuck is totally a good choice. And mmmmmm, Hannibal. I owe him a kiss, totally.

Oh. Okay! That sounds kinda neat, really.